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Understanding Stress: The Symptoms, Causes, and How to Manage It

Courtnie Vargas-Rodriguez, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, QS
December 6, 2023

Dive into 'Understanding Stress' for the lowdown on symptoms, causes, and practical tips. From everyday stressors to cool strategies like exercise and therapy, discover the sweet spot for long-term well-being. 🌟💆‍♂️

When we perceive a threat - whether real or imagined - our bodies go into "fight or flight" mode, releasing hormones like adrenaline and cortisol. This is known as a stress response that gives us the extra energy and alertness to deal with the threat.

However, when we're constantly bombarded with external pressures - as is often the case in today's society - our bodies never have a chance to recover, resulting in chronic or consistently high levels of stress.

When stress responses are frequent throughout an individual's daily life and their stress hormone levels remain elevated, it can lead to several health problems, including anxiety, depression, insomnia, and even heart disease. Stress can also make it difficult to concentrate, remember things, and make decisions.

While situations like losing a job or a loved one are common and significant sources of stress, there are many possible causes, and not all of them are considered negative life events.

Some common life stressors include:

  • Having a child
  • Moving to a new house or city
  • Marriage or divorce
  • Illness or injury
  • Losing a job or being laid off
  • Money troubles
  • Family member's illness or death
  • Starting at a new school or experiencing problems at school

While some of these causes are out of our control, there are many things we can do to manage stress in our lives.

Exercise, relaxation techniques like yoga or meditation, and spending time with friends and family can all help to reduce stress levels. Talking to a therapist can be highly beneficial, as they can help you identify and manage stressors in your life and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

It's important to remember that everyone experiences stress at different levels, and what may be a minor source of stress for one person could be a major source for another. It's also important to note that not all stress is bad - a certain amount of stress can be beneficial, as it can help to motivate and focus us.

The key is to find a balance -

to manage the stress in our lives so that it doesn't persist and affect our long-term health or feel overwhelming.

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